Returning after a long absence can be emotional because memory and current reality do not always match. Places change, relationships evolve and the visitor has changed too. That does not make the return less meaningful.
Expect familiarity and surprise at the same time
Some sounds, foods and routines may feel immediate, while neighborhoods, family roles or everyday systems may feel completely different from what you remember.
Avoid turning every change into a judgment
Growth, traffic, new buildings, technology and changing social habits can be exciting or frustrating. Give yourself time to observe before comparing everything with the past.
Let the trip create a new relationship with home
The goal does not have to be recovering exactly what was left behind. A return can become the beginning of a more current, adult relationship with Kenya, family and identity.
Reconnect with the Kenya that exists today
DLX Diaspora explores the practical and emotional realities of living abroad while maintaining an active relationship with home.